EB Info World

Supporting families dealing with Epidermolysis Bullosa.

EB Info World - Supporting families dealing with Epidermolysis Bullosa.

Helping Kids Cope

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Epidermolysis Bullosa, EB, is a very difficult condition to live with, even with the mildest forms.

These are things of outmost importance in helping your child coping with EB:

  •  Accept the EB and accept your child for who he is.
    This sounds simple, but it’s not. There is a certain degree of loss and mourning when a child is not born healthy, and it takes parents different amounts of time to learn to accept things how they are. This may take months or years, depending on the circumstances. The amount of time will depend on many factors… such as if this is your first child… or last, your age, and who you are and your upbringing. But, remember, the more accepting you are of your child’s EB, the less of a ‘big deal’ you make of things, the happier and comfortable your child will be.
  •  Remember, your child is #1, EB is to be treated separately and “secondly”.
    This is also easier said than done, especially when the children are small and there is so much care involved. But it’s important for the kids to grow up not thinking EB is all they are, because their little brains are working just fine, and they can do so much! Remember, most EB kids are straight-A students!! Skin care is important, as their health and life depends on it, but it is important for their mental well being, to help them be children, and you need to help them enjoy all the things in life a normal child enjoys, to play, to laugh, and to learn, with all the potential and need for joy as any other child.
  •  Don’t be afraid to consider your child ‘disabled’.
    This is one of those things no Dr will ever tell you, and parents are afraid to consider, but it’s the truth. Go ahead, get a wheelchair (it will save your child’s feet on long walks), get SSI (for financial help if needed), apply for help (Dept. Of Developmental Disabilities), get disabled plates (for extra wide spaces to get in and out of the car), it will make your child’s life much easier.
  •  Teach your child to explain EB
    There will come a time where you might be a breath away and not hear someone ask if your child got burned or has chicken pox. But your child heard and wants to answer. What is he going to say? This will happen often once he/she enters school, so, better be prepared. They can say something as simple as ‘I was born with a skin disorder’, or they can even hand out cards that explain what EB is (my favorite Option). Whatever you decide, make sure to instill in your child the notion that EB is not ‘who’ they are, just something they have.

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Coping with Baths/Bandage Changes

Bath and bandage change times are hardly fun times for either the patient nor the caregiver. The kids are scared of the ‘upcoming’ pain and they scream and holler in discontent. My son even hyperventilated-always did. He will do just about anything to get out of it, even take a nap (which he will always resist in taking otherwise).

Bandage change time is probably the only time EB kids get to release their frustrations, using it as an excuse to complain and cry about the whole situation, the powerless feeling of the condition, perhaps how they are treated by society etc. This, however, is not healthy. For kids with RDEB it’s a known fact that hollering and screaming hurts the throat-my son always throws up after a fit.
So, what do we, as parents, do to help the kids cope?

These are some suggestions that came forth from adult EBers.

  •  Diverting their attention AWAY from the wounds and the pain during the bath and/or bandage changes really work, such as watching a particular video, having someone else play with them or read them a story, or have them fiddle with a particular toy. Making a game out of bandage changes has worked with some kids too.
  •  IF your child loves a particular food, try to reserve it for bandage changes. My son *loves* M&Ms and Skittles, so I do not give them to him except during those times where he really needs the distraction. It does not always work, but it’s worth a try.
  •  Try to involve your child in his care as early as possible… the sooner the better. Whether that is letting them take the bandages off, having them hand you a needle or gauze, have them decide what limb to start with, etc. Basically, anything you can do to give them “a say” in what’s going on.
  •  Teach your child breathing techniques. Breathing helps control pain (and I know this one from having gone through 2 labors, lol), and once your child gets the hang of it, it will become second nature.
  •  Have your child pick a soft toy, they can beat, bite, punch, pull or whatever they need to do to channel their pain.
  •  Try saying things like, “I know it hurts.” or “this is going to hurt.” or, “Mommy does not like seeing you in pain but, we need to do this.” Be honest. And tell the child what you are doing as you are doing it. Instead of using the word “I” use the word “We” so, that the child hears he/she is part of what is going on and not just having this stuff done to them. Like, instead of saying “I need to pop this blister.”, say “We need to pop this blister.”. And so forth…

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If you have any other helpful hints to share, please leave a comment below. Thank You!

Common Misconceptions about EB

Through the years of running this website I’ve been asked questions about Epidermolysis Bullosa that follow in the category of misconceptions. People believing some things regarding this condition that are false. This is not only from strangers, friends and family, but from the medical community, as well as actual EB patients and parents. I’ve asked other parents and patients to give me their input of what the most common misconception about EB is that they have encountered and that ishow I came up with this page. I add to it regularly when new misconceptions arise.

Here are the most common ones in an effort to educate everyone about EB. Please note… I am posting most of these questions verbatim, exactly as they were asked.

Q.Is EB caused by the parent in any way? By their use of illegal or legal drugs? By them using too much sweet-and-low in their coffee or anything of sort?

A. Epidermolysis Bullosa is a GENETIC condition, much like Down Syndrome, Cystic Fibrosis or Tourette Syndrome.The gene that causes EB was finally found in 1993. Before then there was a lot of speculation as stated in the question, and much fault was put on the parents. EB per se was first written about in the late 1800s, before then surely patients would die and nobody knew why. EB has been around forever because it is an equal opportunity disorder, being equally present in ALL RACES and GENDER. Parents have absolutely NO responsibility and are not ever to blame over how it manifests, as it is in our genes, much like we have blue eyes or blonde hair.
In brief, some forms of EB, such as Recessive Dystrophic and any form of Junctional, are indeed a gene that is recessiveand it only shows up if mom AND dad are both recessive carriers, healthy carriers. But the baby must inherit BOTH to have the condition. If he/she only inherits one he/she will be a healthy carrier like mom and dad. Hence two healthy carriers have a 25% chance of having a child with EB.
Dominant Dystrophic and Simplex are ‘flukes’ at conception, much like many other conditions, such as Trisomy 18, and once the patient has it, it is then a dominant condition, hence the patient has 50% of giving it to their children.

Q. Can antibiotics CURE EB?

A. EB is not an infection, it is a genetic defect. No antibiotic could cure EB, much like an antibiotic cannot cure Cystic Fibrosis or Down Syndrome.

Q. There must be a way to prevent EB, isn’t? What precautions can parents take?

Because EB is not a disease, but a genetic defect, there is nothing that can truly be done to prevent it. In most cases, the parents are oblivious they are even carriers, and since the DNA is so tricky regarding this, they can’t even be tested for it. In the cases where this is a ‘fluke’ at conception, well, that certainly can’t be prevented.

Q. If the slightest touch hurts the skin, how come bandages don’t? I don’t get what it means by “touch” or”contact.” How do EB patients lie in bed, sit down, hugged, carried,etc?

A.The answer is two-fold, because it really depends on the form of EB.

With Simplex EB, indeed bandages “might” cause more harm than good. The wounds are superficial after a slight bump, and bandages cause sweat that can cause more blisters. This, of course, if the wound is rather small. If a wound is large it may need to be bandaged anyway to promote healing. In simplex, and especially with babies, a small pressure of the skin will cause a blister, bandaging does not press the skin, hence does not usually cause blisters.

In RDEB (Recessive Dystrophic) the blisters are from friction, not pressure, hence the bandages actually help getting less blisters because they act like protection against the normal scratches and bumps that would tear up the skin immediately.

Patients can lie in bed, but they usually have to have very soft sheets or padding of some kind. Sitting is okay, but a lot of patients do need some extra padding on a hard chair. Patients can be hugged gently. Patients will need to be carried in a way that does not cause any kind of friction, absolutely NOT under the armpit for example, and more cradled like babies, without using hands but arms under the buttocks or legs.

Q. Do you use antibiotics all the time to treat infections?

A. Unfortunately if the body is given too many antibiotics all the time, such as bactroban, it can build a resistance to it. Hence it is vital to make sure the patients develops a strong immune system to fight infection on their own and not always rely on antibiotics of any kind. Antibiotics should be used sparingly and onlyi f they are really needed to ensure that when they are indeed needed, they will WORK!

Q. Are EB blisters like rashes, red areas or sores of Eczema or Psoriasis patients? Is EB just perhaps a more severe form of these conditions?

A. No. EB blisters are indeed wounds, not rashes orsores. In the cases of RD they are second degree burn-like wounds-the kind they hospitalize people for. Eczema and Psoriases are NEVER, EVER to be confused with EB. Even in theire xtreme cases they are vastly different from EB, and never as serious. It needs to be understood that the blisters normal people get are not the kind of blisters that EB patients get. They are much, much more severe.The protein that acts as a glue between the layers of skin is not produced or not enough of, causing the skin to peel off. Leaving 2nd degree burn-like wounds on RD patients.

Q. Won’t wrapping the hands cause children with EB to be very behind for their age group with using their hands?

A. The first thing to understand that is very important is that it is cruel to “expect” any child with EB with their fragile hands (and this is most especially for those children with the more severe forms of EB) to be able to do all the things a normal child does. I am not saying here to ‘not let the children try things’ , what I am saying is ‘do not expect’, big difference. Their little hands hurt very easily, and they “might” (depending on severity)never be able to do even a fraction of what healthy children can do, so, as advice to parents, it’s always suggested to throw out the window the notion that your child with severe EB can even remotely have normal hand use and to expect your child to be behind in this area. Having said this, things vary differently from form to form. With the more severe forms of EB it is more important for the child’s hand to be protected and safe than worry about development-children WILL learn to do things, adapt andd evelop at their own pace and figure out a way to do things.
There will never be a need to wrap or protect the hand of a child with a mild form of EB at all (such as DDEB, Simplex andJ unctional non-herlitz), but it is essential with severe forms, and especially so with the disfiguring form, which is Recessive Dystrophic.The hands of children with Recessive Dystrophic, if not wrapped, WILL web and contract, becoming unusable or close to it as time goes on, needing painful reconstructive hand surgeries to restore at least some function. Hence, with RD, the wrapping serves more than protection from wounds orcovering wounds, it literally is a form of physical therapy, because by using slight pressure the fingers are kept apart and straight. The gauze also serves by giving the patient’s fragile skin a little more strength in pulling and pushing.

Q. Do people need to keep their distance from EB patients so they won’t catch it?

A. EB is not a disease or an illness like Chicken Pox or HIV. It cannot be ‘caught’ by being close to a patient, much like youc annot ‘catch’ Down Syndrome by hugging them or sharing a drink with them. EB is a birth defect, the defect lies in the DNA, in the genes. It is perfectly safe to hug and kiss an EB patient, EB is not contagious.

Q. How can twins be born one with EB and one without if EB is a genetic condition?

A. While that is true for identical twins (meaning, if one identical twin has the condition, the other one, by virtue of the DNA being identical, must have it as well), that is not always the case for fraternal twins. In fraternal twins it is very possible to have babies where one has a genetic condition like EB, and one not. Just like one baby can be born with down syndrome, and the fraternal twin be perfectly healthy. A recessive condition has a 25% chance of developing, and it’s ar oll of the dice each pregnancy/baby.

Q. I saw on TV a show about a child with EB who got skin grafts and she is now basically cured! Why can’t all patients get this skin graft?

A. Dateline NBC had a special in conjunction with People Magazine about Medical Miracles in the summer of 2001. The child that received this treatment, Tori Cameron, was the first EB child to receive a skin graft called Apligraf in an effort to heal her extensive wounds. Tori suffers from the Simplex, Dowling Meara form of EB, which can be quite severe at birth. Because she was the first patient to receive it, and it worked in closing her wounds, she made national news and appeared in shows such as Headline News, Extra and Dateline. Apligraf has since been used in many patients in an effort to close their wounds.
2 things are important to know:
1. Tori’s form of EB dramatically improves with age regardless of any skin graft.
2. Apligraf only has about a 50% success rate, but all it does is close the wound, it does not cure EB because skin grafts cannot alter the patient’s DNA unless they are made to do that specifically. The patient can and will eventually re-blister in the spot where the Apligraf was placed. Stanford is working on skin grafts which are made to specifically replace the patient’s skin, and in that case they would indeed ‘cure’ that area where the skin graft will be put, but the treatment is a few years away at best.

Q. Does EB spontaneously appear at 3, 4 or 5 years of age? Could it be a side-effect from vaccinations? My girlfriend is 45. She says her EB showed up when she was 5 years old.

A. Patients are definitely born with EB. EB is a genetic disorder, and to say that it didn’t “show up” until the patient was 5 years old is like saying that the baby was born healthy and then at 5 years old all of a sudden he/she had Down Syndrome! It just cannot be. Maybe your girlfriend was very mild before and then something triggered it to make it worse or does not have EB at all. No vaccination could ever cause this, because vaccinations do not alter the DNA. The vast majority of patient’s EB is diagnosed immediately or when it starts to show which is usually within the first few months of life. In some babies it does not show right away because the baby still has some of mom’s good fluids in its system. There is only one form of EB (aquisita)that all of a sudden shows up in later years (there is one documented case of a patient being in his 30s, usually it is much later, 60s+) when the body becomes weak and stops producing enough of the protein, but that is very rare.

Q. There must be a lotion or a cream that can heal that right up! I bet that products for sensitive skin would heal EB!

A. Creams and Lotions can help in the healing, but because this is a genetic defect, they will not get rid of the condition per se. EB cannot be cured by creams and lotions just like Sickle Cell Disease cannot be cured this way. Genetic Conditions can’t be cured with any sort of cream unless they can alter the patient’s DNA.

Q. Why does bleach in baths helps EB patients?

A. Bleach Baths help because they kill germs that cause infections. Infection is the #1 killer of EB patients.

Q. If you starve a baby long enough, she will nurse or eat.

A. While this might be true for healthy children with no mouth involvement, children with EB of any form can and will blister and have raw areas in their mouth, throat and esophagus making it extremely painful to eat. Doctors not familiar with EB have told parents not to force their babies to eat, that if they get hungry enough they would suck and swallow their milk. These babies are in too much pain to actually eat, and they can and will act hungry and will keep dropping weight. It is in these instances that a G-tube becomes a life savingoption. The point is, don’t starve your babies! Get help.

Q. I heard that a high protein diet causes blisters. Since EB patients need to be on high protein diets, could it be that that is the reason why they blister?

A. Patients lose so much blood and nutrients from their wounds, they need to get high protein from anywhere they can find. Wounds can cover most of an RD patient’s body, hence the body needs to make it up somehow. No high protein diet would ever cause any symptom that is anywhere close to what RDEB patients endure

Q. Don’t Herbs and Plant treatments help cure EB?

A. During the time that it was not known what caused EB (before it became known that it is a genetic condition) patients were often treated and maltreated, put through every herb and plant treatment known. Nothing ever worked. Whether herb or plant treatments can somewhat help EB symptoms has never been fully proved, surely they can’t hurt, but it is an impossibility for these to cure EB unless they can alter the patient’s DNA.

Q. Can EB disappear, I mean, completely disappear with age?

A. EB can’t per se disappear because the mutation lies in the genes. EB is not a virus or a disease, it’s a genetic mutation, and the genes don’t mutate by themselves. There is an extremely rare form of EB called ‘transient of the newborn’ where it does go away around the child’s first birthday, but the patient’s DNA was not altered per se, the child simply had a late start on producing the missing protein.

Q. There must be a typical diet for EB patients, isn’t there?

A. There is no typical diet for EB patients, because every patient is different. Those whose mouth is sore with wounds can only eat usually mushy liquid fluids, those whose throat and esophagusis damaged, they get the tube. Most others can eat whatever they want with caution, of course.

Q. Why do patients get EB?

A. … for the same reason why you have blue eyes or brown hair, or get Down Syndrome instead of Sickle Cell Disease, or why some women get Breast Cancer at 30 and some at 60, and some never get it. There is no rhyme or reason, sometimes is just bad luck, or something inthe genes that is incorrect… every human being is a carrier of at least 7 potential gene defects lying dormant in their system, waiting to be passed on to the next generation. Some get lucky and don’t pass it, some however…

Q. I bet there are no books about EB.

A. For books about EB please refer to the Books Category on this website.

Q. Do patients recover from EB?

A. There is no way anyone could ever recover from EB. Patients with the simplex form improve in the first years of life, and then again somewhat improve after puberty, but that’s all. Think about it like this. Do your blue eyes turn brown later in life? No. That is because it’s in the genes. It is impossible for a patient to lose their blue eyes like it’s impossible for them to lose their EB or their Down Syndrome. As far as if the condition gets worse or improves with age, that depends on the form. Simplex improves with age, Recessive Dystrophic gets worse due to the constant breakdown of the skin and severe scarring.

Q. Nobody cares about EB because is so rare, I bet there is no one looking for a cure.

A. Stanford is working on Gene Therapy for RDEBat the moment with success. So is a Dr in Italy. The University of Minnesota has started Bone Marrow Transplants on young RDEB children and some have been successfull, particularly those that have a sibling donor. There are injection therapy trials all over the world. There is hope.

Q. Does a skin area damaged by the EB get deep red and sore and itch and be hot to touch at one moment, and then maybe an hour later, be more faded, a more normal skin temperature, and maybe just itch a little?

A. A blister on an EB patient is a wound. Is not a red area that an hour later is more faded. A wound is a wound and needs to be treated as such. On RD patients it’s actually a second degree burn-like wound.

Q. Do all EB patients have Allergies?

A. Not all EB patients have allergies. It just depends if they are predisposed for it. I know many EB patients who are not allergic to anything, it just depends on their genetic make up like normal people.

Q. EB patients cannot be out in the sun, right? I bet they blister in the sun.

A. EB Patients do not sunburn easier or faster than anyone, wowever, a bad sunburn would be surely quite more painful and severe than for you and me.

Q. Why do patients die of EB?

A. EB patients don’t die from EB. They die of infections, anemia, organs that are weak because of lack of nutrition or secondary damage or skin cancer. All of these are side-effects of EB.

Q. Are all forms of EB considered ‘Lethal’?

A. Any condition that is labeled ‘Lethal’ (also known as TERMINAL) implies that, upon diagnose, the patient will die from the condition sooner or later. The only two forms of EB that are considered lethal are Junctional-Herlitz and other Junctional forms (such as Pyloric Atresia) and RDEB. Junctional babies usually die before their first birthday, while RDEB patients live a painful life that can range from 0-30+ years in most cases, although there have been patients that have lived longer. The causes vary, usually ranging from severe Anemia, Infection and Skin Cancer.
Yes, other forms of EB ‘can’ be lethal too, but not by definition, as in the vast majority of cases the patient has a normal lifespan. Some old textbooks and Doctors will say that babies born with a rather severe form of EB Simplex called Dowling Meara have a 25% chance of dying their first year of life, but the validity of that statement has become questionable in recent years due to advances of antibiotics and wound care. The National EB Registry lists EBS-DM patients as having onlya 1.44% chance of dying at any age.

Q. All EB patients can die of Cancer, right?

A. Yes and No, it depends on the form. While there is only a minute chance of Simplex patients to develop Cancer (1 in 100 in their lifetime), with RDEB patients, in most cases, it is unfortunately not a matter of IF, but a matter of WHEN.
I found this very interesting page with Cancer in EB patients statistics you mightwant to check out: http://www.med.unc.edu/derm/nebr_site/cancer.htm
Basically, up to age 40, there are virtually NO instances of SCC (Squamous Cell Carcinoma) for EB patients unless they have RDEB. RDEB patients have a 6% chance of getting SCC at 20 years of age, 21% chance at 25 years of age, nearly 40% at 30 and 53% at 35. Even at 60 years of age, Junctional patients have never been reported statistically as getting SCC at all, simplex patients only have a minute chance of getting SCC, barely over 1%, DDEB patients almost 4% at 60 years age, but, in contrast, a 76% chance for RDEB patients.
As far as Malignant Melanoma, this is actually fairly rare to get, barely 1-2% by 55 years of age with all forms of EB except for Junctional, with a 0% instance.
For Basal Cell Carcinoma, they state that by 40 years of age <1% of all patients with EB simplex and DDEB have experienced a BCC, higher with RDEB, with 4%

Q. What is the medical explanation for some people with EB living to be 72 and others maybe only 10?

A. One word: severity. The patient that dies at 72 age has a much milder form of the condition than the 10 year old. It is also true that perhaps the 72 year old was much better cared for than the 10 year old. Perhaps the parents of the 10 year old were living in a poor country or were not aware of how to properly care for their child. It is all up for debate, however, in most cases, it is a case of severity.

Q. Do all EB patients have to have a G-tube?

A. Again, this depends on the form and severity of their form. Simplex rarely has problems in the mouth, but IT DOES HAPPEN! Most if not all Recessive Dystrophic patients, however, can and will blister everywhere…lips, tongue, gums, mouth, throat esophagus. Some patients may be able to eat enough by mouth (which is then usually mushy or liquid foods) and others cannot, that is why those patients might end up with a Gtube.

Q. I believe mouth blisters might not be from having EB, but from the dental fluoride treatment or the toothpaste with fluoride, or the children’s multivitamin with fluoride, etc. Which the parent thinks is good for the child!

A. Fluoride could never cause the damage to EB children’s mouths that I have witnessed. If so, any child with fluoride treatments would have their gums webbed, tongue adhered to the bottom ofthe mouth, and scarring in the esophagus, which, as we know, does not happen. Nicky was not on fluoride treatments when his mouth blistering started (at birth) and is not now, although he should, and he still blisters badly.

Q. I think that if EB patients could get laser treatments to ‘burn the scars off’, healthy skin would grow underneath!

A. I myself do not even know if the above statement would even work on a healthy patient, but even if it was true, and, for conversation’s sake, let’s say it is true and the scars would ‘burn off’ and healthy skin would grow underneath on a healthy patient and it was tried on an EB patient, even if the treatment would work, the patient would still have EB after all is said and done. He/she would still get blisters and still scar. This is because EB is a genetic defect, and no laser treatment can cure EB unless it can magically alter the DNA of the EB patient.

Q. Instead of wrapping these children from head to toe, isn’t better to dry out the wounds?

A. While that is possibly the preferred method with most children with simplex, very mild dystrophic and even some junctional non-herlitz patients, simply because the wounds are superficial and don’t normally scar because they lie within the epidermis, or the wounds are few, letting the wounds dry with moderate to severe Dystrophic patients means they will scar and also cause deformities in the extremities. Wounds can also develop infections if air dried, and it has been observed that moderate to severe children with RD that are never wrapped have a much shorter life span because most of their little bodies are covered with scars. A scar is weak skin that can brake down much easier than an area that was properly healed, hence these children develop huge areas of weak skin that once breaks down will be open forever and have a high chance of developing nasty infections and even become cancerous in later years.
Bandages for RD patients serve many purposes: They allow for proper healing of wounds, they protect the healthy skin from braking down in the first place, and they allow the patient to do much more than without it. Most patients could not even walk without bandages on their feet. In areas where a bandage cannot be put, it is strongly recommended to keep the area moist by applying either zinc oxide 40% or Aquafor or any ointment twice a day to allow moisture to penetrate the wound and heal it properly.

Q. Is it common for those with RDEB to need diapers? If so may I ask the cause??

A. Many parents of severe RDEB children have many issues regarding toileting. Many children just can’t walk to the toilet and/or may not be able to take their underwear down if they tried due to wounds on their hands or deformities. Others can’t sit on the toilet due to many wounds on their bottom, others yet hold it in constantly because they are afraid of skin tearing in the anus and are extremely constipated. This is a psychological issue that many patients with this form of EB have, and it may not be until they are older that they can solve it, because they have to want to solve it themselves. No trying talks or bribes truly work. Children that get accustomed with holding poop in end up leaking poop all day long which makes it impossible for them to wear any underwear. The only way they’ll go is if enough laxatives are given so they have no choice but go because it’s basically liquid, which makes it even more impossible for them to wear underwear. The fact that RDEB children are anemic and we have to give them iron does not help either, since iron constipates. It’s a losing battle and for many severe RDEB children diapers are the only answer…

Q. Why do some RDEB patients require blood transfusions and why are family Drs suggesting to have this done? In what ways does it help??

A. My Nicky’s pediatrician referred him to a hematologist because Nicky had no energy and he had been severely anemic for a very long time. Nicky’s hematologistis is Dr. Coates, which spoke at the conference about EBers problems related to anemia. He is not only an expert hematologist, he is an expert in hematology and how it relates to EB.

Nicky’s blood count had been dangerously low for along time, but at this time they were below borderline. Having a very low count means he’s extremely anemic, which means that Nicky’s life was in danger if nothing was done. A blood transfusion gives him some iron-rich bloodplus trasferrin (sp?) which he was also missing. Transferrin is something the blood needs to have to absorb iron in foods and supplements and that somehow many severe RDEB patients lose after several years of bleeding through the wounds. After a couple of blood transfusions he started iron-transfusions which work better since his blood now has the trasferrin which enables his blood to absorb the iron.

Most RDEBers have this problem and a few children have even died because of it…

Q. For those w/spontaneous mutations for the first time in the family, I am not totally convinced it isn’t something in the environment. I understand that the recessive types occur when two people carry the gene and if you have a dominant type and pass that on as well… but I still don’t understand how it could just occur out of the blue…?? Especially when there are other types out there you have to have/carry for your child to have it and it’s called the same thing? Are the other conditions that can occur spontaneously as well? 

A. There are alot of conditions out there that are ‘flukes’ at conception, so many things can go wrong during conception I often wonder the wonder of nature of how many people are actually born healthy to be honest! LOL. But… I digress…

A few years ago there was a group of Vietnam Vets that contacted me because many of them had children with EB Simplex, which as we know, it’s a dominant condition and a fluke at conception. They thought there was something to it. We went back and forth for a while, and we never came back to a conclusion. It is possible.

As per your question regarding how a condition that is a fluke at conception/dominant can be associated to a recessive condition that someone carries… the answer is actually quite simple. It’s because of the nature of the beast. Even though they are two different beasts, they are associated because the symptoms are similar:Blistering. You have to remember that the word EB is just an ‘umbrella’ for various blistering conditions, something Doctors associated more than a hundred years ago. We often speak how Simplex is vastly different from Dystrophic and how Dystrophic is vastly different from Junctional etcetera, so different that they are treated quite different and the same type of products do not work from one form to another. They should not be listed with the same name (EB), but they are because it was something done before they even knew of all the differences. The word EB per se means the blistering of the epidermis, and if you think about it, it doesn’t really fit the dystrophic forms because the blistering forms in the dermis, not in the epidermis! But, again at the time EB was named and all the forms associated, they weren’t even aware of any differences, and now it’s too late to change it!

Q. I saw a documentary about a man with EB and the narrator stated that he never went through puberty. Why is that? What causes it? Is this a common problem with EB patients?

A. It’s important to understand that going through puberty requires a lot of calories and nutrition. In general, people who do not have much food to eat or are unable to eat much will have a delayed puberty or will not go through puberty at all, and this is the main reason why RDEB patients sometimes do not go through this stage of life. Why is that? RDEB patients have a scarred and strictured esophagus, and eating is always a big problem in general due to the mouth and throat being prone to easy blistering and painful sores. This is not the case for Simplex or Junctional patients, as their mouth, throat and esophagus is not normally damaged nor CAN get damaged to the extent that they cannot eat enough to sustain them. However, it is a HUGE problem for RDEB patients. My son Nicky, who is 8.5 years old as I write this, most likely would not be alive today without his g-tube and his constant throat dilatations to enlarge his esophagus that has been so closed up, the passing was only 1mm large. Because of the g-tube feedings now he is as big as a normal 8.5 year old would be and will most likely go through puberty without any problems. G-tubes have only been around since the early 90s.

Q. I noticed that RDEB patients seem to have a discoloration of the skin. Why is that? 

A. The skin is not really discolored. Most RDEB patients are very anemic due to the heavy loss of blood through their wounds, and lack of iron in anyone’s blood will make the skin look very pale.

Q. Does EB effect the teeth, and if so, how? Does it affect the gums? I was looking at a picture of a child with RDEB (Nicky) and noticed that the teeth looked different.

A. While some forms of EB (namely, Junctional) do effect the teeth (Junctional patients have very fragile teeth), the form of EB Nicky has (RDEB) does not effect his teeth per se. However, the problem arises in the fact that he cannot brush his teeth like normal people. Brushing his teeth like we do will cause the skin of his gums to fall off and would be excruciatingly painful. That is why many RDEB patients do lose all their teeth eventually, simply because of the inability to clean them properly. Mouthwashes and other methods have worked a little, but never fully.

More Questions and Answers that were sent to us.

Q. Is it the type of shoes you wear that causes the blisters?

A. No, I can get the blisters while goingbarefooted. I have the Localized Simplex Weber-cockayne disorder. I getthis question all of the time. ~Cindy

Q. I was scarred from burns all over my body. I went to a herbal doctor, and got on an herbal diet, and now my wounds are healed and I have little or no scarring. Can’t you do that for your son who has DDEB?

A. This question was asked to me by someone in a court house who happened to see my son’s DDEB from down the hall. Although herbal medicine, may help a little, it will not cure EB. Herbal medicine cannot change your genes. Since EB is a genetic defect, herbal medicine may help with healing, but will never CURE EB. ~Dawn

Q&A about Recessive Dystrophic EB -Hallopeau-Siemens 

Will the skin get better with age?

No. With RD, the more it has broken down, the easier it breaks down the next time. Andeventually, it does not heal at all. It is open to such a depth that it is extremely prone to serious infection. Strictures, mittening and syndactilly occur. Fifty percent of RD patients beyond the age of 10 develop Squamous Cell Carcinoma. There are RD patients who had multiple amputations before succumbing to this cancer. When the average person with RD passes away, the breakdown of skin is to the point that 75% of tissue lacks the ability to regenerate. The bottom line is, the skin does *not*get better in RDEB as it can with Simplex diagnosed individuals.

How healthy are RD patients?

Individuals with RDEB suffer from extreme malnutrition and are notoriously underweight. Some never even undergo puberty. The body puts all of its resources and energy into healing and fighting off infections, and growth and development come last. The 80-pound range seems to be a top figure for weight. Internal damage contributes. The mouth is constantly a mass of open sores. It strictures as it heals, causing macrostomia, tied tongues, and reduced ability to eat and drink. Esophageal dilatations are a way of life for many. G-tubes are common.

Does it get easier to handle emotionally?

Do you feel more upbeat as your child fades and is in more and more pain? Of course not. And even worse, you are the one that HAS to cause much of that pain, because if you don’t–the consequences are unthinkable. You have todo the zombie thing and poke and cut and bathe, smear medicine on areas too sore to even expose to the air without hurting them, and bandage thec hild. This is against everything that is in the handbook of lovingparenthood, of nurturing. Deliberately causing pain, even though it is theo nly choice, is not particularly high on the list. Do we get more calloused to this? Oh, dear God, I pray not. How could a nurturing parente ver lose compassion for their child’s pain. How could we ever accept their loss without extreme anguish, and accept it we must, without the future so-called “cure.” Until the medical community perfects a treatment plan, our challenge is to keep our children as whole as possible. To keep them alive. So many are dying around us! A number of children on theEB/NuSkin film (made with Steve Young) have passed away or are in the process. And yet we must go on, and encourage our children to live a life that is as normal and rich as we can make it. We must give them as much life as they can handle. We must not let our knowledge of what may lie in the future color their lives, and we must be upbeat with them.

Thanks to Sheri for writing this Q&A and helping me with the rest of this lengthy description!

Life with Andy

By Mary Jo Burgy

December 30, 1993 was the day we had been longing for. This was to be the birthday of our twin boys. We were as excited as we were scared. I had the “perfect” pregnancy. I gave up all the bad stuff and ate all the good stuff. All the tests indicated that they were healthy and ready to meet the world. We filled the nursery with two of everything. We talked of little league, climbing trees, riding bikes, high school sports, and all the girls hearts they were going to break. We were ready for anything, or so we thought.

At 8:34 and 8:35 am two beautiful boys came out into the world filling the room with their loud, healthy cries. We had done it. Good health and care over the past nine months proved successful. Moments later we would discover that all was not right with the world. There was something wrong with Twin 1 (Andrew). His nail beds were purple, he was missing skin on one of his fingers and he had blisters on his lips. They tried to assure me that all was okay and they would have a dermatologist called in to check him over. They brought him to me and laid him on my chest. He looked healthy to me. He was crying and crying. I talked to him and he stopped crying, he knew who had him. During the next hour or two my husband, myself and my mom spent time checking Alex and Andy over. Passing them around, taking pictures and examining them to see what parts of them looked the same. When up in our room they took Andy away and said that he needed to be in the NICU and needed to be isolated.

Having just had a C-section I was heavily medicated and do not remember a lot about what happened next. My husband went with Andy and later I remember he said that things weren’t good and that the dermatologist was going to come to talk to us. I looked around the room and I saw my mother crying, now I was worried. The doctor told us that Andy had Epidermolysis Bullosa, a rare skin disorder. He stated another boy was born in the same hospital a few years ago and the family was on their way to the hospital to talk to us. Looking back on things now, I’m glad that I had medication go get me through this. I kept calling the NICU to get updates on Andy. I felt such a loss not being there for him and not being able to breast feed. I asked to go down there to do that for him, but they stated that he would not be able to due to blistering. I still did not have a firm grasp on what this disease was. I was finally able to go see him. There was my little boy in a glass box wrapped with gauze and boo-boos on him. When they handed him to be he was on a large piece of wool. I didn’t think that I would ever stop crying. How could this be happening? I did everything right. I immediately blamed myself. I’m the one who carried him the last nine months, I must have done something wrong.

Later they explained that it is genetic. It was nothing that I did. No one on either side of our families had anything like this. They explained that Andy’s body will be covered with blisters and missing skin. His hands and feet would web together. It would involve his esophagus and mouth. His nutrition would be compromised. This was all so overwhelming and frightening. Before we took Andy home we had to learn so much about him. We had to learn how to hold him, feed him, change him, what clothes he could and could not wear, etc. Most important, we had to learn how to take care of his skin. This meant learning how to wash him, pop his blisters, bandage him and protect him from infections. The hardest part was the day when I had to leave the hospital without one of my babies. I just wanted them to both be home with me. Many people say that they could never do what we do everyday. When you see your son needing help, attention and love, you would and could do anything for him. My husband and I were committed to making this work and to make our son better. We would soon find out that we could not make him better, but only care for him the best we could.

Finally with both the boys home we were ready to go on with the rest of our lives. We learned quickly how to bandage and were doing his dressings in record time. Mechanically things were going well, emotionally it was tough. We were basically alone other than visits here and there from family members that lived out of state. Having twins is difficult, but having one with difficulties almost seemed impossible. EB is a painful disease. Having to hear your child cry daily from dressing changes and baths, it breaks your heart and leaves you feeling helpless because you can’t do anything to take the pain away. There were many times after his birth that we wished his life would end. He could go to Heaven and be pain free. It was not fair for someone so small to have to endure this. There were many times when I would just break down. I would hold Andy and tell him over and over again how sorry I was. Through all this we still had to remember that we had another little boy who needed just as much love and attention. He had the instinct to be calm while Andy was being tended to and when that was done he would act up and we would care for his needs. There were many times when Alex would be calmly playing while we are tending to Andy and if we poked Andy with a needle Alex would cry out too.

Twins are amazing and wonderful. Andy is about to turn 6 as I write this. Life is easier and harder at the same time. He can tell us what hurts. He can tell us about his boo-boos and has taken on the responsibility to pop them on his own at times. He is more vocal about his disease. He will scream about how much he hates this disease.  He will cry and wonder why he can’t have skin like the rest of us. It seems is cries from pain are even louder now. I hear he and his brother planning quietly in their room about what fun things they will do when Andy gets a cure for his skin. I watch his brother run along with friends ahead of Andy and I comfort him when he cries because they left him behind. I see hear about his day in kindergarten. How excited he is everyday about what they do. Teachers tell me how hard he tries to not be different and how he fights being catered to. We find it amazing that gym is his favorite class. He is a survivor.

When you have a child with special needs you learn many things. Life is not to be taken for granted. Your life can change in an instant. We always thought we would have “perfect” kids. We took it for granted that we would. Why would anything go wrong, that happens to other people. You learn to appreciate many things. We appreciate the moments when Andy seems free and is running and jumping around. Most parents tell their kids to “stop jumping on the bed”, we join him. A smile, a kiss, and a warm hug mean so much more. When our boys want to play, this is what we try to do. The dishes, laundry and dirty floors can wait, our boys cannot. We appreciate many things that thankfully most parents do not. We enjoy days when Andy wakes up and isn’t stuck to his clothes or his bedding. A day without Andy crying in pain. Days without blood on his clothing and ours. We actually have become experts on getting blood and bacitracin stains out of clothing. When a bath is less than three hours long and his knees are the only thing we have to wrap are as close as we come to being “normal”. You just never know when life can turn. Today is a gift, that is why they call it “the present.” Many times I think he is stronger than his mom. Just when I think that I cannot handle one more cry, one more bandage, one more set of clothing filled with blood Andy offers me relief. After a painful episode he reaches for me, grabs my neck, looks at me like he is peering into my soul and without a word just hugs me as tight as can be as if silently saying, “It’s all right mom.”

True heroes are not in comic books or on the movie screen, but are actually real people right in front of you. He is our little “Hercules”. He is only 5 and he has been our teacher. He has an unrelenting spirit. He doesn’t let his limitations rule his life, he just tries his best everyday.

Andy became an angel on March 25, 2003.

Making Goals and Dreams Come True

By Bruce Gunn

As printed in the Summer 2000 issue of DebRA Currents

Bruce Gunn in DisneyWorld!

Bruce Gunn in February 2000 in DisneyWorld during the ‘Have a Heart for EB’ family event.  

During my teenage years I knew I was beating the odds given to me at birth. With every birthday I was achieving the impossible.
In high school I was treated fairly equal to everyone else, needing few adjustments to make getting around easier. Getting out of each class five minutes early to be on time for the next class and drinking soda toward the end of the day, kept me from being tired for the last class and improved my attention capabilities. Both were small changes in my schedule that made a big difference in my school success.
I knew that after graduation I would be able to work, but did not know what I would do. My special education teacher was a great source of encouragement for me, telling me I could drive and live independently. It was in her class that I first used a computer, giving me direction for work.
Graduation was an important milestone in my life. At the time of graduation, 1986, I was 19 years old but still looked like a little boy. I proceeded into Vocational Rehabilitation to help me find a job. I was placed with Janus Developmental Services, Inc., a workplace for mentally and physically handicapped adults. Janus brings in work from area businesses for the clients to work on for a paycheck. After hand surgery in the fall of 1986, I was able to begin work at Janus in the spring of 1987. I started at a workshop in Tipton, Indiana, a small workshop with about 20 clients working.
I knew I wanted a job with computers and was able to work making computer labels for Fisher’s Guide. The job consisted of receiving orders from Fisher’s Guide on when the labels needed to be run, description and part number of what they were. These labels consisted of all sorts of part numbers and descriptions. We had to make sure we had the right label format and I needed to just learn the ropes of something new, knowing the different labels and part numbers. We also had to tear the labels and package them. At first I would tear off one at a time and soon learned how to do more than one at a time and do quality work at the same time.
After working at Janus for about one year I began thinking of moving on from the workshop to a community job. This would necessitate learning how to drive. Janus vans had provided transportation to and from work for those who couldn’t drive, but now I would have to drive myself. I knew that my Dad wouldn’t be the best one to teach me after seeing my two older brothers and sister go through it. I knew I needed someone more patient for a driving instructor. Vocational Rehabilitation sent me to Crossroads Rehabilitation Center in Indianapolis where I first learned to drive. On the first day I went to to downtown Indianapolis, the Monument Circle. By my second day of driving I went on Interstate 465 and passed a Semi going 70 mph After my first driving class, my mom came home and said to my dad: “Put your thinking cap on and change it, because your son is going to learn how to drive”. My dad wasn’t sure my leg reflexes were good enough to drive a car, but I knew I could do it. My special education teacher always helped by saying I was capable and I had the confidence in myself.
My driving lessons were three days a week for 21 sessions and would be like 6-8 weeks of driving education. I only needed 13 driving lessons, by the end of my 13th session, I got my license and found a car. On July 7, 1989 I got my license and my car, a 1986 Oldsmobile Ciera. I knew this was important for me to be more independent. Nobody told me I had to get my driver’s license, Bruce Gunn in the wheelchair, surrounded by, on left, Jennifer DePrizio, her sister Jody, her dad, and Randy CameronI just wanted it and went for it. No one stepped me and it was my next major achievement in life. 

February 2000 – Again in DisneyWorld.
Bruce Gunn in the wheelchair, surrounded by, on left, Jennifer DePrizio, her sister Jody being hugged by Taylor Cameron, Richard (Jennifer and Jody’s dad) and Randy Cameron

After working for 2 years, I began to get irritated-I wasn’t going on job assignments and it was hard to find a job I could do in the office. I needed a chance to try and an employer to five me a chance. As work was slowed down, around Christmas, I took time off from the workshop. In this way I could get their attention because I wasn’t happy still being in the workshop and wanted a community job. At one of the annual meetings, our workshop director mentioned that I wasn’t getting the credit I deserved, that I had worked long and hard for three years at the workshop. After all the work I had done for the organization, I appreciated the director/manager standing up for me.
At the end of May 1990, after being there for 3 years, a position became available in the Janus front office starting a data information computer system. This meant putting client’s data information in the system and typing the annual and semi-annual client reports required by state law as well as learning other skills in the office. I had to drive 30 minutes to Noblesville and knew the job would mean traveling. The secretary had known about me in the workshop and wanted me for a position as a receptionist at one of the other workshops, but I couldn’t take it because there was no central air in the workshop at the time. When this job became available at the office, she had me in mind. My social coordinator thought about it thought and I wasn’t happy with the social coordinator anyway: three months later in October of 1990 I wasn hired and began my training.
It is hard to believe I’ve been with Janus for 10 years now and have undergone many changes through it all. When we went without a receptionist and needed someone dependable, I was the one to fill in. I’ve worn many hats at Janus, taking on various responsibilities at the office. I have 5 case coordinators under me, one handling the adult clients 18 years or older in the workshop as well as 4 case coordinators for children who are developmentally delayed in their fine and gross motor skills and speech/language development for children under 3 years of age. We have about 150 children in the program and 65 adults. I type letters to Doctors, parents and type case conferences notices to be sent out, as well as keeping the data information system updated, typing annual and semi-annual client progress reports throughout the year in addition to being the backup receptionist when she is sick, at lunch or on vacation. Whatever needs to be done, I’m the one to do it for staff support in the office.
I’ve learned much in my ten years as an administrative aide. Until five years ago I didn’t even need to use my medical insurance, when I needed to have my first hand surgery. I have been using my insurance since then and the benefits are great, not to mention the pay is getting better.
If you are EBer you must never lose the dreams or goals you want to achieve in life. My parents never told me ‘no’ and I did what I was capable of doing within reason. I realize parents are protective of EB children, but you need to let them explore what life has to offer and at least encourage them to find out for themselves what they are capable of doing. Only your child knows his or her limits and not every EBer is capable of doing what they set out to do. I want’s always sure of myself, but I knew there wasn’t a cure for EB and sitting around wasn’t good for me either. I was on disability when I first turned 18 and got off when I started working full time. I wanted more than what disability could give me, but that was my choice.
Having RDEB isn’t easy and working full time isn’t always easy either. There are many days I go in whether I am sick or not, when I need to push myself, but that’s me. Co-workers would know if I wasn’t feeling well, or walking really slow because I broke out in blisters on my legs and knees, but I never complained and moved on. Now and then I will complain, but there is nothing wrong with that. I have learned to pace myself and do what I’m capable of doing and not worry about what I can’t and move on.
Focus on what you can do, not what you can’t. Parents, don’t give up hope for your child and think positively about your child’s future with EB. One day we will have a cure, so don’t stop living life and don’t think there is no hope for your EB child, because there is. I’m just one example of and EBer who is making it and there are many more out there.

Leo

By Debbie Kay Hatley

In search of a new pair of eyeglasses, I entered a well known optical shop. It wasn’t very busy perhaps a handful of customers, one or two were being fitted with their new prescriptions.

Maria and Leo

Maria and Leo

I began browsing through the assortment of frames this shop had to offer. In the process of returning a set of frames, I heard a female voice from across a display rack say ” Excuse me, but can I ask you… what’s wrong with your hands?”

Suddenly all that emotion from deep inside me began to surface.
The years of those same dreaded questions asked in public places, making me feel different … set apart from others.
Some strangers would stare. Some of them thinking this condition might be contagious would make rude comments or gestures.
My feelings of hurt and embarrassment could make me reply with a hint of anger or sarcasm towards some. Most often however, it was easier to pretend I never heard their comments.
I felt somewhat relieved that on this day the store wasn’t overly crowded with customers whose prying eyes would make this more difficult for me to deal with.

Turning to reply to the female voice, my heart was immediately soften by the tender eyes which met my own. She must have noticed her question had caused me to feel uncomfortable, for the next few words from her were filled with unexpected kindness towards me.
“I’m sorry, I hope I didn’t embarrass you but I think you might have the same condition that my son was born with.”

If she didn’t before, she sure had my attention now, for most people (mistakenly) associated this condition with that of a burn.
“Leo (my son), was born with a rare skin disease called Epidermolysis Bullosa. It causes him to get huge blisters as well as much of his skin to tear away leaving large, raw areas of skin exposed.”

Debbie Kay and Leo's hands

Debbie Kay & Leon's hands

I felt a lump in my throat as I had just heard her give a very good description of my own skin disorder. Within minutes we were introduced, enjoying the company and the conversation of a rare topic.
Maria continued talking about her young son and she did so with much enthusiasm and pride for Leo.

Her eyes lit up when she spoke of Leo’s accomplishments, and tears fell as she shared with me the pain he went through. A short time later we had to end our conversation, but before I left we had exchanged phone numbers and a promise that we would get together very soon. Several weeks later My Mother accompanied me on a visit to Maria’s home. “Come here, mi hito,” Maria called to Leo as she tried to persuade him to come out of hiding and meet us but he appeared to be too shy. He would wander back to his room or hide behind the sofa wanting nothing to do with these strangers.

I sat relaxing on the sofa, listening to everyone talk.

“How old were you when you began to loose all your fingernails?” Maria asked, but before I could respond to her question I caught a glimpse of Leo. He had quietly come from behind the sofa where I was sitting and stopped very suddenly in front of me. He began glancing first at my hands, then his, back to mine again. Taking notice that his little hands looked very similar to that of mine. The lack of nails, a few blisters and the deep scarring were telltale signs that Leo and I had something in common.

Eric and Leo

Eric and Leo

Looking over at his mother and pointing one of his small fingers towards my hand Leo replied in a loud surprised tone.”yaya’s Mama, Yaya’s.” We all began laughing at the connection he’d made. Leo however, was still looking wide-eyed as though he’d just revealed a secret to everyone.
He became my little buddy that day when even in his young, childlike mind he knew we shared something very rare indeed.

A visit to her Doctor soon confirmed the fact that Maria was again pregnant. Her doctors advised her to terminate the pregnancy due to the fact that there was a 25% chance that this child might also have the same condition as Leo. Maria’s strong faith in God gave her courage to believe that a life though fragile and having countless limitations should be respected and cherished.
She soon gave birth to her second child (a son) who is EB free. She watched as her two sons’ grew.

Juggling her time between her job and the role of Mom. Maria gave great care to Leo, tending to his many wounds, draining blisters and the many bandage changes that had to be done. They even traveled to Germany seeking treatments for him. Always going forward, never quitting in the pursuit that eventually something could be found to benefit the health of her child.

On July 3, 1986, Maria and her small family were heading out on the highway to visit relatives for the up coming holiday celebration. In a head on car accident at the very young age of 22 Maria’s life was taken, leaving behind her husband and two young sons. Loosing her had left a huge void in so many lives.

It would be years before I saw Leo again, though on several occasions I would call him and his family to hear how he was doing. He had changed over the years (as I’m sure I have too). Still somewhat shy, very soft-spoken, he no longer was the little boy I remembered but a young man of 19.
His disease has progressed beyond my own. His feet are now encased due to the reoccurring scar tissue that has built up. Leo has had to have his esophagus removed and replaced with part of his colon. He is considering hand surgery that will release the digits of his hands, which are now fused.

Leo's family with Debbie kay

I realize now that the constant stares and comments from strangers had begun to effect me. I was developing a rather bitter and cynical attitude towards people. Some of who were rude, but most are just curious. Perhaps the pain we go through (if we allow it to) can create a heart that is tender and compassionate towards others. Helping those who might be going through similar circumstances, In fact, isn’t that most of what our journey is all about?

Pictured: Leo’s family with Debbie Kay

So, remember the next time you meet a stranger. You never know when you might create a lasting friendship or have an opportunity to converse with an angel unaware.
God bless you in your journey,

Debbie Kay Hatley
February 2, 2001

About Eddie Paul


By Helen Kling

We would like everyone who is affected by Recessive Dystrophic Epidermolysis Bullosa to know our son Eddie Paul.  This is very much a success story, and hope that by sharing this, it will give others inspiration as he gave to all who knew him.

We already had a little girl who was almost three, when we were excited to find out that we were expecting again.  On September 20, 1957 Eddie was born but things did not go as planned.  He was born without the skin on his legs and feet and one finger.  He blistered easily to the touch, and in 1957 no one knew what was wrong with him.  Finally two months later the doctors told us they thought it was EB.  They also said he probably wouldn’t live very long.

We brought him home and I learned how to bandage him.  I learned very fast that I had to pick him up by supporting his bottom and chest rather than under his arms.  It was hard raising Eddie because I had no information and it was all trial and error.  I wish I had known more because I could have avoided so much suffering for him to go through.

He couldn’t suck from a bottle because it blistered his tongue.  So he learned to drink out of a cup when he was seven months old.   It was hard taking him anywhere because we had to explain to the public about his condition, even though no one understood.  But we took him anyway because we felt everyone should know about EB.

Our doctor had prescribed penicillin for both children just to ward off infection.  We let them play and do almost everything that other children did including playing in the sandbox and dirt.

Ed with his daughter Melissa

We knew some damage might occur but they would be better off emotionally.  When Eddie asked to ride a bicycle, I felt bad but I had to say no because that would be too dangerous.  I told him that as soon as he’s old enough I would teach him how to drive a car.

As Eddie grew older he learned what he was able to do and what he couldnt.  If he couldnt accomplish things normally he would find a way that he could.  Actually he was a good inventor.  He was active in school and enjoyed impersonating famous people.  He liked to make people laugh and made a lot of friends.  Our favorite impersonation he did was Elvis.

Ed went to Kent Sate University and received a bachelors degree in Telecommunications.  He had various jobs including NBC, cable TV and Case Western Reserve University.  His last job was with Rainbow Babies and Children’s Hospital of Cleveland .  He was the producer of in-house programs on the Rainbow Channel.

He met his wife Sandy and married in 1991.  They had a daughter, Melissa, in 1995.

Ed was diagnosed with metastasis squamous cell cancer in the summer of 2001 and found out it was terminal on 9/11.   He suffered and told me its quite painful and I told him that I understood, because what hurts him hurts me also.  He fought a courageous battle but died October 4, 2001 at the age of 44.

A plaque now hangs at the hospital where he worked with the motto, Do just once what others say you cant do, and you will never pay attention to their limitations again.  This is the way Ed lived his life and why he is a success story.

Ed with mom and dad

We were very proud to be his parents.  We will miss him but will always have him in our prayers and in our hearts.

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